It is with the heaviest of hearts that we share the passing of Emer Claire Mezzetti, a beloved daughter, sister, mother, grandmother, and friend. Born on November 6, 1968, in Dublin, Ireland, Emer entered into eternal rest on January 11, 2025, following a tragic accident while walking on the lake near her home in Atkinson, NH. She was 56 years old.
Emer grew up in Newton, MA, surrounded by a large, loving family who cherished her vibrant spirit. She leaves behind many who will carry her memory in their hearts, including her beloved children: Ronald McNeil Jr., his wife Krystal, and their children, RJ (Ronald III), Oliver, and Òrlaith; daughters Devin Kelly McNeil and her son Walter Munger; and Shannon McNeil and her partner Diego Fiori. Emer was deeply devoted to her parents, Emer and William (Liam) Mezzetti of Dublin, Ireland, Newton, MA, and Boynton Beach, FL, who lovingly called her their “Irish Princess,” “The Smidgen,” and “The Countess.” She is also survived by her siblings, with whom she shared extraordinarily close bonds: Santina Ferri (Michael), Marguireta Heger (Dennis), William L. Mezzetti III (Anna), and Cara Salmon (Shaun). Countless cousins, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, friends, and neighbors join her family in mourning the loss of such a bright light. She also leaves her former husband, Ronald McNeil of Newton.
Emer’s love for her family knew no bounds. She was a devoted mother who poured her heart into raising her children, and she found renewed purpose and immense joy as “Mimi,” a role she embraced with pride as the doting grandmother to her cherished grandchildren. Her adventurous spirit was infectious—she had an uncanny ability to persuade (or lovingly insist) that everyone join her, whether it was kayaking, hiking, boating, or swimming. And when it came to dancing, resistance was futile; Emer would pull you onto the floor and ensure you had the time of your life. If you were fortunate enough to have been able to stand in Emer's light, you know what a bright light that was—an absolute Disco Ball, radiating joy and energy wherever she went.
Emer’s siblings recall their unique bond with her—sharing moments of silliness, deep conversations, and unwavering support. She was not only their sister but also their confidant, therapist, and best friend. Their closeness was a rare and treasured gift, and they are forever grateful for the time they shared with her.
May you find the peace you have been searching for, Emer. Your family will honor and uphold all the sparkles you brought into this world.
"I could not stay another day, to love, to laugh, to work, or play. And if my parting has left a void, then fill it with remembered joy."
Funeral arrangements are being handled by:
Andrew J. Magni and Son Funeral Home
365 Watertown St., Newton, MA 02458
Calling hours will be held in the funeral home from 3:00 PM to 8:00 PM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2025.
A Funeral Mass will take place at:
Our Lady Help of Christians Church
573 Washington St., Newton, MA
on Thursday, January 16th, 2025, at 10:00 AM.
Burial will follow at Newton Cemetery.
After the burial, all are warmly invited to join us in celebrating Emer’s life at:
VFW Post 440 (American Legion Nonantum Post 440)
295 California Street, Newton, MA 02458
for refreshments and the sharing of stories as we raise a glass in her honor.
In Memory of Emer
The family kindly requests that no flowers be sent and instead donations be made to The Second Step, a nonprofit organization in Newtonville, MA, dedicated to supporting survivors of domestic violence.
How to Donate:
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Online: Secure donations can be made through The Second Step's website: thesecondstep.org/donate
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By Mail: Checks payable to "The Second Step" can be sent to:
The Second Step
P.O. Box 600213
Newtonville, MA 02460 -
By Phone: For assistance with donations, please call 617-916-2758.
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By Email: For questions or more information, contact the Development Office at development@thesecondstep.org.
The Second Step is a registered 501(c)(3) organization (Tax ID: 22-2868513), and all donations are tax-deductible to the extent permitted by law.
Your generous contribution will honor Emer's memory by supporting individuals and families on their journey toward safety and healing.
For more information about The Second Step and their mission, please visit their website: thesecondstep.org.